Wedding guests must budget too!
Since June is considered the big month for weddings, I guess it’s not surprising that I attended a family wedding last weekend. My bank account is grateful that I wasn’t in the position of paying for any part of the wedding; it was a lovely event, and I don’t really want to think about the total cost to the bride’s and groom’s families.
Instead, my attention was drawn to the costs of being a wedding guest. Most members of our family live several hours away, so many of us had two hotel nights, as well as gas and meals and gifts. Some of my relatives had even a third hotel night, because they needed two days to travel to the event. I am in no way grumbling about the cost. It was a wonderful opportunity to really spend some time with family members, including aunts, uncles and cousins I don’t see even once a year. So it was absolutely worth the expense.
But I was struck by the recollection of certain past summers when I had many weddings to attend. If I had, say, five weddings this summer that involved costs similar to this past weekend, then I would be feeling noticeable financial pain!
I often remind people to plan for periodic or occasional expenses, such as back-to-school, 6-month insurance premiums, and holidays. Never once have I included “wedding season” as one of the costs to plan for, but perhaps I should! Planning ahead involves anticipating and setting aside funds for a wide range of future needs (and wants) — including expenses that don’t show up on typical lists!
~Barb
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