As our parents age, it is a time of celebration and preparation. Celebration because of all they have experienced and the wisdom they have shared with us. Preparation because end-of-life is a given for us all. Some people easily talk about their end-of-life wishes and some do not even want to go there.
My brother and I got “the call” on Saturday – our mother had a severe stroke. We drove the long hours to reach her and spend the last days by her side. She wasn’t able to speak or move one side of her body. She was in pain. She wasn’t going to recover. As we were together in the hospital, we quickly realized there were documents we needed with us so decisions could be made on her behalf.
We fetched the following documents:
- power of attorney
- long term care insurance policy
- durable power of attorney for health care
- living will (also called advance directives)
You may want to think ahead too of what your family will need if you are unable to make health care decisions for yourself or you are nearing the end of your life. It isn’t always easy to fill out this paperwork but doing so makes it much easier on the family that will care for you when the time comes. They then know your wishes and their roles in the decisions they will be asked to make.
ISU Extension and Outreach Human Sciences specialists in family finance offer a workshop series called The Finances of Caregiving. Contact your family finance specialist about this new program. It helps the caregiver and care receiver organize all the information needed into one place and prompts discussions among family members to make decisions about end of life issues.