Lending Money in Tough Times

Man handing out money.

Times are tough when money is tight. When you are in need of money NOW, you may find banks unwilling to loan money, especially if your credit score is poor. For some, the only option is to borrow from family or friends, especially if you need the money fast.

If you are the lender, it will be hard to say no. You want to help a friend in need and if you say no, you will feel guilty if they lose everything. If you lend the money and they still lose everything, there may be hard feelings because the debt goes unpaid. If the loan is made to a family member, family gatherings will be uncomfortable. The lender may make mental inventories of anything purchased (while the debt is unpaid) especially if purchases are viewed as WANTS instead of a NEEDS.

When making the decision to lend money, it is important to keep emotions out of it. You should not lend money that you can’t afford to lose. If you do expect it to be paid back, don’t expect it to be paid back quickly. You may want to consider the money as a gift instead of thinking of it as a loan.  Then if you get the money back, it will be a pleasant surprise…instead of a disappointment when it isn’t paid back.

Another thing I have done in the past is to buy groceries or to offer to fill up the gas tank for a friend or family member.  This would free up money for the emergency that would have been set aside for gas or groceries. I have also offered to pay for a service, like painting a bedroom which helped the family member make ends meet, without having to ask for a loan. Make sure your spouse is in on the decision to lend money.

As of the 2019 tax year, the IRS has a $15,000 gift tax rule. A small loan will not make a difference, but if you do not charge interest on a loan of that amount or more, it may be considered a gift. If you do not charge interest, the IRS can say the interest you should have charged was a gift . In that case, the interest money goes toward your annual gift giving limit of $15,000 per individual. If you give more than $15,000 to one individual, you are required to file a gift tax form.  The rate of interest on the loan must be at least as high as the minimum interest rates set by the IRS.

These are tough times, especially for the farming community. Be sure to share information, phone numbers and links from the Iowa Concern Hotline.

Brenda Schmitt

A Iowa State University Extension and Outreach Family Finance Field Specialist helping North Central Iowans make the most of their money.

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