Talking with Children about Money

Guest blogger Carol Ehlers is a Human Sciences Specialist with Iowa State University Extension and Outreach.

Wondering about the right time to talk to your kids about money? Children learn about money from many sources. Long before they enter school, they see adults using money and buying things. They see thousands of commercials each year. Like it or not, money is a part of your preschooler’s life.

What children witness affects their attitudes and how they value money. Some of these beliefs will help them as adult consumers and some will not. For example, they might get the message that saving is important or they might not.

As a parent or guardian, you will not be the only influence on what your child learns about using money. But when you daily reflect on basic lessons about money, you increase the chance that your child’s values will be similar to yours.

Simple activities and other resources, which are parent and child tested, can give ideas for:

  • Teaching how money works and what it can do;
  • Talking about how your family uses money; and
  • Modeling good money management.

Here are some tips and ideas for parents to use with their preschoolers to begin increasing their money management skills:

  • Encourage play that helps preschoolers think about money. This helps children learn about daily consumer choices. For example, play restaurant, supermarket, post office, bank, gas station or car wash.
  • Use games to help your child identify coins and values. Ask the preschooler to help you count out the money as you purchase items together.
  • Talk about work. Preschoolers can learn that some family members go to work to earn money for family needs such as food, clothes and the home. Preschoolers can learn that other family members work at home so that the family does not have to buy some good and services like laundry, cooking and yard work.
  • Share information. Talk with your child about how money is earned, paying for expenses and saving money. A good gift for a preschoolers to start learning this concept is a three part container with slots that are labeled SAVE, SPEND, And GIVE. There are some great examples on the internet.
Carol Ehlers

Money as You Grow, from the CFPB (Consumer Financial Protection Bureau) offers wonderful research-based guidance and financial learning activities for parents and caregivers of young children, and older children too.

The FDIC provides a range of resources for consumers, including free parent guides for four different age groups, including Pre-K through Grade 2, Grades 3-5, Grades 6-8, and Grades 9-12. Their page also features podcasts and games. (The parent guides are two-thirds of the way down the page).

Barb Wollan

Barb Wollan's goal as a Family Finance program specialist with Iowa State University Extension and Outreach is to help people use their money according to THEIR priorities. She provides information and tools, and then encourages folks to focus on what they control: their own decisions about what to do with the money they have.

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It’s More Than Who You Know

A friend was visiting with a member of her family during a recent gathering.  They told my friend about a job opening at their workplace.  It was a remote job…a work from home opportunity with good pay and benefits. The next day, my friend sent in her resume, and two days later she had an interview.

In the past month I have: referred a couple of friends to job openings I knew about; received a phone call regarding someone who used me as a reference when they applied for a job; and met with a graduate of the Remote Work Certificate Course to help her prepare for an interview.

In the Remote Work Certificate course, offered through Iowa State University Extension and Outreach, many strategies are taught to build up your connections, because connections increase your chance of landing a good job. One of those strategies is social media, which can reach a lot of people with little time or effort. The most fruitful connections, however, will most likely be your direct personal connections.  You do not get referred if you do not connect with someone in a way that makes them trust you enough to refer you. Personally, in every job I’ve had except my first job, I had a personal connection that made the interview possible. Connections matter!

Important reminder: while the connections help you find the opportunities, and may help you land the interview, you still have to do your homework and work hard in preparing for the interview.

If you have a thirst for knowledge, know your strengths and want to work on them, and are thinking about getting into the remote workforce, check out the Remote Work Certificate course.  The next class begins January 4…application deadline is December 29.

Brenda Schmitt

A Iowa State University Extension and Outreach Family Finance Field Specialist helping North Central Iowans make the most of their money.

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Thanks Giving: Give Wisely and Deduct

The Thanksgiving holiday is a time to stop and really notice how much we have to be thankful for. Many people take that gratitude a step further by sharing from what we have; they take their “thanks” and turn it toward “giving” to worthy charities this time of year. The arrival of “Giving Tuesday” next week also prompts people to give.

An article from the Iowa Attorney General’s office this week (see item 5 in the article) reminds us of steps to ensure we give wisely. Careless gifts may end up in the hands of criminals OR of organizations that do not use funds wisely. One way to make sure your money is used well for the cause you care about is to give to a local organization that has a good reputation. When giving to national organizations, you can make sure they are well-managed by checking one or more of these reputable charity rating sites: BBB Wise Giving AllianceCharity NavigatorCharityWatch, and GuideStar. The article offers more suggestions as well.

Another way to give wisely is to take the tax deduction for which you are eligible! Some people may say, “I don’t give to charity just for tax purposes – I give because I care!” That’s great. But if you take the tax deduction, and it reduces your tax bill (or increases your refund), then you have MORE money to give! Now that is wise giving!

The tax code allows us to deduct (subtract) our charitable gifts from our income before the tax is calculated. The government created that deduction to encourage us to give. By taking the deduction, and potentially having more to give, we are contributing to the valuable American habit of supporting worthwhile causes. There are two ways to deduct your charitable contributions:

  1. By “Itemizing” your deductions on Schedule A of your tax return. This is great for people who have enough deductions to be higher than the “standard” deduction allowed according to family type. For a single individual, that standard deduction is $12,550; for a married couple, it’s $25,100. Your tax preparer can help you know if this is advantageous for you.
    Good news! Even if you are better off with the standard deduction, a new law lets you deduct some 2021 giving anyway!
  2. Thanks to some of the COVID-relief legislation passed in 2020 and 2021, taxpayers can take a deduction for charitable contributions in 2021 even if they don’t itemize deductions! An individual tax filer can deduct up to $300 of monetary contributions to qualifying charities; for married couples filing jointly, that figure is $600.

In the midst of your Thanksgiving celebration, I encourage you to think about any charitable giving you might want to do, and then when you make the gift(s), be sure to keep the receipt for tax purposes! Plan now for #GivingTuesday and beyond!

Barb Wollan

Barb Wollan's goal as a Family Finance program specialist with Iowa State University Extension and Outreach is to help people use their money according to THEIR priorities. She provides information and tools, and then encourages folks to focus on what they control: their own decisions about what to do with the money they have.

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Confused about recent Federal Student Loan changes? Look no further!

If the Federal Student Loan changes over the past 18 months weren’t confusing enough, the U.S. Department of Education recently announced several more that may leave you wondering how you are affected this time around. The original COVID-19 Emergency Relief measures are tentatively set to expire on January 31, 2022, but the new provisions are either permanent, expire on October 31, 2022, and/or impact a smaller group of borrowers:

  • On August 20, the U.S. Department of Education announced that eligible Servicemembers would automatically, and retroactively, receive a 0% interest-rate benefit if they deployed to areas qualifying for imminent danger or hostile fire pay. This is not a new benefit; however, Servicemembers previously needed to submit a form, with supporting documentation, to find out if their loans and deployment qualified for the 0% interest waiver. 
  • Several updates have been made over the past few months regarding Federal Student Loan Servicers. PHEAA (FedLoan Servicing), Granite State, and Navient will no longer service U.S Dept of Ed-owned loans when their contract expires. Current borrowers will receive numerous notifications throughout the loan transfer process. Watch for those notifications: be sure to save the information or respond as requested.
  • The often-troubled Public Service Loan Forgiveness (PSLF) Program is receiving a giant makeover. Some of the provisions are temporary, while some remain unchanged. Regardless, these changes are significant and remain in effect until October 31, 2022. 

Are you still unsure of how these changes affect you? Contact an Iowa State University Extension and Outreach Financial Educator today! 

The information provided is educational in nature to help you make your own informed decisions and is not intended to substitute for professional advice or serve as an endorsement of any financial product or service. Consult with licensed professionals prior to implementing any of the information provided to determine the course of action is best for you. 

Ryan Stuart is a Human Sciences Specialist, Family Wellbeing, with Iowa State University Extension and Outreach. Ryan will be joining the regular blog team soon, so watch for more posts from him.

Barb Wollan

Barb Wollan's goal as a Family Finance program specialist with Iowa State University Extension and Outreach is to help people use their money according to THEIR priorities. She provides information and tools, and then encourages folks to focus on what they control: their own decisions about what to do with the money they have.

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Getting a Leg Up

 

Next week, it will be 2 years since I took the Remote Work Certificate Course. It was not until I took this class that I realized that I have been working in a REMOTE job for more than 20 years now…meaning that I work from a remote site away from my employer’s headquarter.  As a specialist working for Iowa State University Extension and Outreach, I am house in a county office and serve multiple regions, coming to the ISU campus only three or four times a year.  We had been ZOOMing long before COVID hit, working, meeting, teach and hosting educational programs statewide and beyond.

It turns out that more than half of all U.S. job are remote work.  I was surprised to learn that there are more workers over the age of 40 than under 40 working remotely…I thought remote work would mostly appeal to the younger generation. In reality, 86% of the US workforce WANTS to work from home. The bad news is…currently only 3% of NEW job posts are transparently advertised as remote work.  It is for this reason that Iowa State University Extension and Outreach offers the Remote Work Certificate Course.  At the end of the month-long course, participants can schedule time with a career coach for assistance in creating goals, identifying jobs, working through a checklist, creating an online presence, and identifying networking opportunities.

There are plenty of reason why someone would want to work from home:

  • Employees can save more than $7000 per year in employment related expenses.  With the rising cost of gas, I predict that number to rise even more.
  • The opportunity for career advancement. Women make up 42% of the leadership in remote companies.
  • Professionals with experience working remotely are 63% more likely to earn $100,000/year than those that have never worked remotely…making it worth your time to learn the skills needed to work remotely.
  • 96% of U.S. employees NEED some flex in their current job because of aging parents or the needs of small children.

For more information about the Remote Work Certificate Course, visit our website. The next class begins the first Monday of next month and registration ends soon, so register now.

~Brenda

Brenda Schmitt

A Iowa State University Extension and Outreach Family Finance Field Specialist helping North Central Iowans make the most of their money.

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Negotiating For Remote Work

Is Remote Work for You? 

Do you feel limited by the lack of career opportunities in your rural community? Are your skills being underutilized in your current position? Are the only job opportunities miles away from your hometown? Remote work or telecommuting allows you to work from anywhere without leaving your community! Register before July 28 to participate in the August Remote Work Certificate course. The course begins August 2.

I participated in the Remote Work Certificate course in November of 2019 because the idea of not having to travel for work in the winter appealed to me. A year later, Iowa State University Extension and Outreach became an affiliate member of the Remote Online Initiative of Utah State University…all before we fully knew the impact COVID was going to have on Iowa.

Remote work is challenging. Team work is especially difficult when teams are not in the same physical location. It affects communication, brainstorming, and problem-solving and Supervisors need to adjust how they manage their remote teams. To date, 18 Human Sciences Extension and Outreach specialists at Iowa State University have completed this professional development course, assisting with their transition to a remote workplace. The educational programming in Family Life, Nutrition and Finance did not slow when we were all sent home to work.

With approximately a fourth of the FY20 program year affected by COVID-19 and the Derecho, Human Sciences Extension and Outreach provided educational information and programs in nutrition and wellness, family life, and family finance across the state, resulting in over 93,000 direct contacts. 5,284 participants attended online mental health/stress related offerings.

Nationwide, the drive to get employees back into offices is clashing with workers who’ve embraced remote work as the new normal. The pandemic may be winding down, but that does not mean all will return to full-time commuting and packed office buildings. The greatest accidental experiment in the history of labor has lessons to teach us about productivity, flexibility, and even reversing the brain drain.

Currently, employers are facing pressure to adjust their workplace policies, if just to reflect shifting attitudes toward remote work among other tech giants. There has never been a more opportune time to negotiate remote or flexible work arrangements with your boss. In this online workshop, Dr. Paul Hill, Extension professor with Utah State University, will present the evidence-based steps to help you prepare for successful negotiation for remote or flexible work arrangements with your boss. Register to join Dr. Hill on Wednesday, July 21 at 1 PM CDT for this free webinar at Negotiating Your Remote Work Arrangements Tickets, Wed, Jul 21, 2021 at 12:00 PM | Eventbrite.

Brenda Schmitt

A Iowa State University Extension and Outreach Family Finance Field Specialist helping North Central Iowans make the most of their money.

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Spring! Money?

This clump of allium is always a happy surprise later in spring.

The other day, a friend of mine posted a picture of crocuses blooming in her yard. That’s on top of a string of beautiful weather that we Iowans have been delighting in. It’s a good reminder for all of us that many of the best things in life are completely independent of money.

Most people have days (or weeks or months) when money is tight, or money decisions are overwhelming, or it’s clear that you will need to choose to do without something that you normally spend money on, When those days occur, let’s all remind ourselves of the crocuses, or the greening grass, or the beautiful sunset, or the smiles and hugs of our children.

Money does matter. But it is never the most important thing. It is encouraging to remember that.

Barb Wollan

Barb Wollan's goal as a Family Finance program specialist with Iowa State University Extension and Outreach is to help people use their money according to THEIR priorities. She provides information and tools, and then encourages folks to focus on what they control: their own decisions about what to do with the money they have.

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Excited for your Tax Refund?

Tax refund season is an exciting time for many families, because the tax refund is often the biggest financial event of the year. If your family is expecting a sizable refund this year, now is a good time to plan for how you will use that money.

Before making specific plans, I encourage you to think about this: the tax refund is a once-a-year event. That means it’s smart to think about the whole year’s worth of possible uses for that money. It’s a good idea because that reminds you to consider whether you’ll want to set aside some of it for things like…

  • Back to school costs
  • Winter coats for next winter
  • 2021 birthdays and holiday expenses
  • Summer day care costs when children are out of school
  • Car repair needs that might arise (or new tires)

If you think through possible expenses for the year ahead, you will be glad you did. It will help you reduce your overall stress load, since you’ll know you have a head start on meeting some of those needs. Of course I understand that if you have past-due bills right now, you’ll probably need to use your tax refund to catch up on those. I also understand that providing something special for yourself and your family right now may be important – whether that be a new piece of furniture or a trip to a restaurant. Only you can sort through all your options and decide on your highest priorities, but your plans will be stronger when you consider the whole year.

Keeping the whole year in mind as you think about your tax refund makes sense, doesn’t it? It’s just like when you get paid weekly or monthly, and you think about the whole week or the whole month before spending. Your tax refund may not be enough to cover all your special needs for the year ahead, but it sure can help.

Important Note: The IRS announced last week that it will not start processing tax returns until February 12. Why? Because the new law passed in the last week of December made several changes, and they need to make sure their computers have those changes programmed in. Result? Chances are your tax refund will be a little slower this year. No refunds will be issued at all until about a week after February 12. Build that delay into your plans.

Barb Wollan

Barb Wollan's goal as a Family Finance program specialist with Iowa State University Extension and Outreach is to help people use their money according to THEIR priorities. She provides information and tools, and then encourages folks to focus on what they control: their own decisions about what to do with the money they have.

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Curious Behaviors That Can Ruin Your Retirement

This week, I discovered a fun tool that can help us all be more ready for retirement. I don’t think it’s new, so I am surprised I hadn’t seen it before, because I pay a lot of attention to retirement information. I guess that just goes to show that we always have more to learn, no matter how much we think we already know!

The tool is provided the Center for Retirement Research at Boston College — one of the premiere sources of quality information on retirement. I tell you that because I want you to know it’s trustworthy. They have other great resources too.

The fun (and enlightening) part is that it prepares us to make better decisions about retirement issues by alerting us to natural human tendencies that can work against us. It’s called “Curious Behaviors That Can Ruin Your Retirement.” I enjoyed it — it took about 10 minutes, and explained things in clear language with great examples.

I’d encourage everyone to check it out — at least everyone who wants the best retirement possible, especially if you’re over 50. Personally, I think I might go back to it about once a year, just to keep myself on my toes!

Barb Wollan

Barb Wollan's goal as a Family Finance program specialist with Iowa State University Extension and Outreach is to help people use their money according to THEIR priorities. She provides information and tools, and then encourages folks to focus on what they control: their own decisions about what to do with the money they have.

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Pandemic-Induced Goals?

The current period of job loss and reduced income has affected people in different ways. The result? Different households face different financial challenges at this point. Whatever your situation, now is s a good time to assess your financial situation, evaluate your priorities, and take steps to improve your situation as necessary. If you’d like some help, your local ISU Extension financial educator is available to work with you, providing free, non-commercial information and a sounding board as you make your plans.

  1. Some of you have been living with seriously reduced income – and still are. Your task has been to find every possible way to reduce your expenses and/or find new income and make use of new resources, including public assistance if you qualify. You must communicate with all of your creditors, but avoid making promises you cannot keep. If returning to something like normal looks unlikely, you may need to consider major lifestyle changes.
  2. Some of you lost income for a while, but are now back to an income you can live on. It is likely that you got behind on bills, built up credit card debt, and/or depleted your savings during your crisis. Strong focus on repaying those debts and building up emergency savings will get you ready in case of an unexpected expense or another loss of income. Careful examination of your spending choices will help you regain equilibrium and then build a strong cushion.
  3. Others of you had stable income, but have realized that if you did lose income, you would be in a very difficult spot. Facing the reality that you lack basic financial security can motivate you to build up savings and pay down debt. Start by cutting your living expenses so that your regular monthly expenses are 10-25% less than your income. Putting the extra funds toward savings and expedited debt payment will build you a cushion that will bring peace of mind and make your life easier if/when hardship strikes.
  4. Still others have stable income, and have felt secure that even if you did have a cutback, you would be okay. In your case there is no obvious need for change, but it’s wise to maintain control of your finances through good planning. You may wish to build an even stronger savings cushion, after seeing others struggle with lost income for six months or longer. As you build savings, seek out accounts that pay slightly higher interest while still providing ready access to your funds.

Barb Wollan

Barb Wollan's goal as a Family Finance program specialist with Iowa State University Extension and Outreach is to help people use their money according to THEIR priorities. She provides information and tools, and then encourages folks to focus on what they control: their own decisions about what to do with the money they have.

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