A week ago representatives from Reclaiming Youth International, the Lakota Nation, and ISU Extension and Outreach wrapped a Lakota star quilt around me in a traditional Lakota ceremony. I was receiving The Spirit of Crazy Horse Award, and by wrapping me in the quilt they were symbolically honoring me and protecting me on my journey through life. A week later I’m still deeply honored by the experience. I’ve received awards before, but nothing comes close to this.
Crazy Horse was a significant leader as he cared for his people and their way of life. This award which bears his name honors those who have a tenacity of purpose in advancing work with children and youth. The ceremony was part of Reclaiming Youth International’s Circle of Courage Youth Development Conference in Rapid City, S.D. The Circle of Courage integrates the cultural wisdom of tribal peoples, the practice wisdom of youth development professional pioneers, and findings of modern youth development research — which demonstrate that to be emotionally healthy, all youth need a sense of belonging, mastery, independence, and generosity. (Sound familiar? These are the essential elements of 4-H.)
We live in a world that tends to focus not as much on wisdom, but on metrics. We concentrate on GPAs and impact statements. We count the number of refereed articles we write and participants we reach, and, of course, the amount of grant dollars we acquire. We keep score of our accumulations of these metrics and others, and we assume that what we amass speaks to the totality of the work being accomplished. We have grown to believe that this equals value. But value and accumulation are not the same.
Some things cannot be measured, but only felt. The value of kindness. The value of personal growth. The value of patience. The value of showing up year after year to do work that needs to be done – our tenacity of purpose. Just because our contributions cannot be easily measured in the short-term, does not mean they are not worth making. See you there.
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